A few things that I have come across recently in blogs that I read that struck me as possibly being a great deal of fun, but that I haven’t had a chance to try. If I were more on the ball I might have links to share, but I’m not quite that on the ball.
These first two are orgasm denial or tease and denial related games.
1. Begin teasing her and continue until you’re ready for the next step (what a good first step that is). Then let her use her hand or her vibrator to pleasure herself for a set time period, 30 seconds or 2 minutes. You can simply watch her pleasure herself, or participate by say, flogging her breasts, licking her nipples, kissing her, etc. This could be an especially effective technique if you have to untie that hand first. If she can make herself cum within that time period then she is allowed to cum, if not then she gets another 30 minutes of teasing before she has another opportunity to make herself cum. Retie the hand and continue. As you retie that hand she knows that she has no chance at to cum for another half hour, and then only if she can make herself cum within the set time limit. Repeat as many times as necessary.
2. Again begin teasing her and continue until you’re ready for the next step. When you’re ready, decide what action you’re going to be doing, licking her clit for example, fingering her, using a vibrator on her, etc; then tell her to count backwards slowly from 10, and begin licking her clit, if she can cum by the time she gets to zero then she is allowed to cum, otherwise it’s another 30 minutes of teasing before she gets another opportunity. This could be an excellent tease.
3. Tying the nipple clip chain off to the bed so excess squirming pulls on it. Alternately tying it off to the toes. Even more evil would be some tickling here. It would be extra incentive to not squirm too much. Perhaps instead of regular nipple clips pieces of elastic with loops for the nipples. One nipple to each foot. Diabolically delicious.
4. I’ve been thinking about sensation play with wax and ice and variations thereof. Different cold items, drops of wine are always good, but say a plastic cooler ‘ice’, a chilled glass, perhaps applied to a recently flogged bottom or back? I’ve also been thinking about a little small flogger-like object where the tails are made of fine chain, not for flogging someone, but for sensation play after being put in the freezer or heated. All those links being dragged across your skin. Maybe very gentle flogging.
5. Nude Blues Dancing. For anyone who is not a dancer, blues dancing is dancing to blues music, pretty self-explanatory. It tends to be a very close dance, often connecting with your partner all the way from your waist to your cheek, and sometimes from the knees upward. Blues music is full of emotion, sadness, melancholy, anger, love, and yes, plenty of sex. If you haven’t experienced blues dancing, I encourage you to give it a try. That said, blues dancing naked has excellent erotic possibility.
I’m sure all of these techniques could be adapted for use on a man with only a few alterations. Hopefully I will get the chance to try some of these out soon.
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